So I started researching. Google search after Google search, late at night.
But everything I found felt awkward, fake, or just plain cringy. “Say this phrase,” they suggested. But I couldn’t imagine myself whispering half of it without feeling silly.
I thought maybe dirty talk just wasn’t for me. Maybe I’d never get it right.
Still, one thing became clear:
Studies showed that up to 90% of men think about someone else—often an ex—during sex.
And dirty talk kept coming up as the #1 thing men secretly crave but rarely get.
That stung. But it also told me I was onto something.